Passage 1
The equality of married persons before the law, is not only the sole mode in which that particular relation can be made consistent with justice to both sides, and conducive to the happiness of both, but it is the only means of rendering the daily life of mankind, in any high sense, a school of moral cultivation. Though the truth may not be felt or generally acknowledged for generations to come, the only school of genuine moral sentiment is society between equals. The moral education of mankind has hitherto emanated chiefly from the law of force, and is adapted almost solely to the relations which force creates. In the less advanced states of society, people hardly recognise any relation with their equals. To be an equal is to be an enemy. Society, from its highest place to its lowest, is one long chain, or rather ladder, where every individual is either above or below his nearest neighbour, and wherever he does not command he must obey. Existing moralities, accordingly, are mainly fitted to a relation of command and obedience. Yet command and obedience are but unfortunate necessities of human life: society in equality is its normal state.
Moral responsibilityHabit and self-commandhuman institutions · advancesgovern · advancesRights and self-governmentCharacter and human developmentEnlarges autonomy
Mill argues that legal equality in marriage is necessary for justice and happiness, and that relations among equals cultivate genuine moral sentiment better than command and obedience. He therefore presents equality as a social and legal arrangement that enlarges human moral development and self-government.
Local word range 18106–18530